What It Means to Be 'Mum' — A Tribute to Every Kind of Love

Mother’s Day often brings with it a particular image: soft hands, warm hugs, perhaps the scent of a familiar perfume. But not every story looks the same, and not every mother fits the traditional mould. At East Day Spa, we believe in celebrating all expressions of motherhood, not just the biological, but the beautiful, meaningful connections that have shaped us in their own way.

Some of us were raised by grandmothers, aunties, older sisters, carers, mentors, or chosen family. Some of us have said goodbye too soon, or grown up without the steady presence of a maternal figure. And yet, we have all been touched by a form of mothering love, that quiet, powerful guidance that helps us grow.

Motherhood is not defined by biology, but by presence. It is found in the gentle checking in, the encouraging word, the quiet comfort when the world feels too much. It is in the sacrifice, the selflessness, and the small daily acts of care. It is a role lived by many, not only those who gave us life, but also those who helped us find our way through it.

There is no single definition of what it means to be a mother. Some mothers are nurturing by nature; others learn to mother through experience and necessity. Some hold the title proudly, while others mother quietly in the background, never expecting recognition, but deserving it all the same. The love they offer is just as real, just as lasting.

In a world that often narrows definitions, we want to expand the narrative. We want to say to those who don’t fit the traditional mould: your story matters too. Your version of motherhood, whether lived, received, or given in return, is deeply valid and deeply beautiful.

This Mother’s Day, we honour all who mother. Those who gave birth, and those who gave love. Those who raised, and those who reached out. Those who stayed, those who supported, and those who simply showed up when it mattered most.

A spa treatment may seem like a small gesture, but it holds something tender: time to rest, to feel nurtured, and to be seen. In a world that rarely pauses, this is our way of saying: you are cherished. Your care does not go unnoticed.

So whether you’re celebrating your own mum, a mother figure, or someone who’s been there in the ways that mattered most, this day is for you. For your softness, your strength, your quiet resilience, and your enduring, unconditional love.

To all the beautiful souls who mother in their own way: this day is for you.